Sunday, April 26, 2015

Week 10

Today Is: April 26, 2015
How far long: 10 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Prune
Weight Gain: 0 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope and still didn't get the belly band.
Sleep: Waking Up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom
Best Moment this Week: John finished the chalkboard and I was able to have my first week posted with it :)
Worst Moment this Week: Not being able to stay up and watch my shows live. Thank goodness for my DVR! Also, realized I am no longer a size small :(
Miss Anything: Wine
Cravings: None
Queasy or sick: None
Symptoms:  Tiredness and some headaches
Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: Our first ultrasound on May 4th

Sunday, April 19, 2015

Week 9

Baby Zegarra is the size of a strawberry this week!

With the theme of strawberries, I made a strawberry shortcake cheesecake! It was delicious! 

Today Is: April 19, 2015
How far long: 9 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Wild Strawberry
Weight Gain: 1 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope, but my clothes are still tight. I was debating on buying the belly band because I am worried I might split my workpants :) Didn't get it this weekend, but maybe next weekend.
Sleep: Waking Up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom
Best Moment this Week: Met my doctor on Thursday and I love her! I got to schedule our first ultrasound to see the baby :) We go on May 4th, which is John and I 11th year anniversary!!! Such a great date to see the baby for the first time!
Worst Moment this Week: Having a headache for three days
Miss Anything: Sushi!
Cravings: Mexican food
Queasy or sick: Queasy and headaches
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning, getting tired and headaches
 Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: John finishing the chalkboard this week! I can't wait to take my first picture by it!

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Week 8

John almost finishing up the Chalkboard. Keeping my fingers crossed that next week I will have my first photo with it!
Our first pack of diapers for baby Zegarra! Now the question... which diaper brand is better? Pampers or Huggies???

Today Is: April 12, 2015
How far long: 8 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Southern Pecan
Weight Gain: 0 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope, but my clothes are still tight.
Sleep: Waking Up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and feeling nauseous
Best Moment this Week: I was on Spring Break this week, so John and I had a lot of quality time. We even made a garden! Eating healthy for the baby :) We even bought our first pack of diapers!
Worst Moment this Week: Got nauseous at the gym while working out and had to run to the bathroom to throw up :(
Miss Anything: Lox on my bagels
Cravings: Chips and Salsa
Queasy or sick: Queasy
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning and getting a little tired
 Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: My doctors appointment on Thursday and being able to schedule the ultrasound. Can't wait to finally see the baby!!!

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Week 7

Today Is: April 1, 2015
How far long: 7 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Blueberry
Weight Gain: 2 pounds (think it is because I am eating too much ice cream... haha!)
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope, but my clothes are still tight.
Sleep: Waking Up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom
Best Moment this Week: Getting a surprise present in the mail. John got me the fruit water infuser with some baby books and of course comic books for him :) I went to the doctors today, but only did paperwork and blood work.
Worst Moment this Week: Thought I would be able to schedule the ultrasound, but I have to have a physical by a doctor first.
Miss Anything: Nothing
Cravings: So over the ice cream, not really craving anything in particular.
Queasy or sick: Queasy
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning and getting a little tired. Taking naps on the weekend.
Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: The chalkboard almost being done and seeing the baby for the first time. 

Week 6




Today Is: March 22, 2015
How far long: 6 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Sweet Pea
Weight Gain: 1 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope, but my clothes are getting a little tighter.
Sleep: Waking Up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom
Best Moment this Week: Not feeling to nauseous and taking the doggies to the beach
Worst Moment this Week: Not being able to see the doctors appointment until next week.
Miss Anything: Vino!
Cravings: Ice Cream
Queasy or sick: Queasy
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning (sometimes)
Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: The chalkboard almost being done.

Telling John's Family

It was so hard not to tell John's family right away. I know his parents would be just as excited as my family. However, we wanted to wait to tell them in person and not over the phone since we don't live too far from them. Since John works every other weekend, we had to wait two weeks to tell them. When we got there I wanted to John to give him mom the present right away, but for some reason he didn't. I kept texting him and looking at him to do it, but it took him FoReVeR to give them the gift. Finally, after what seemed like eternity he finally told his mom that we got her an early Easter present. When she opened it up she started to cry. I knew she was going to be excited, but I didn't expect her to cry. It made me so happy!

Week 5



Today Is: March 18, 2015
How far long: 5 weeks
Baby is the Size of: Sesame Seed
Weight Gain: 0 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope
Sleep: Waking Up in the Middle of the Night, but able to go back to sleep
Best Moment this Week: Getting the frame for the chalkboard to announce week-by-week. Plus going to the doctors to take the urine test to prove I was pregnant. Plus, John was able to drink the last wine that our friend, Lauryn, got us as an engagement present.
Worst Moment this Week: Not being able to tell the world that I am pregnant.
Miss Anything: Vino!
Cravings: Ice Cream
Queasy or sick: Queasy
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning
Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Happy
Looking Forward To: John finishing the chalkboard so I can start taking pictures week-by-week

Telling My Family


My dad was coming in town the same week I found out I was pregnant. I was so excited to tell him, but I wanted to tell him with John and since he was at work until Friday, I knew it had to wait until then :(  So I picked my dad up from the airport and it was the hardest thing not to say anything to him the moment I saw him. I went on my day as normal... we went out to dinner & had to skip the wine part :(:(:(  I accidently told him that I was feeling nauseous that day and he even asked me if I was pregnant and quickly said "No!" The day before he came, I purchased the cookie cake, so I couldn't wait to eat it for desert on Friday. We went around town and the whole day I was very excited to go home and have dessert. I even mentioned a few times during the day that I had dessert at the house. After we got home from dinner I gave it a few moments and took out the cake. When my dad looked at it he couldn't believe what he was reading. He was over the moon and back! I sent my mom a picture of the cake and she quickly read it and called me. They both were thrilled and couldn't wait to be grandparents again!

Week 4



Today Is: March 11, 2015
How far long: 4 weeks (Just found out!!!)
Baby is the Size of: Poppy seed
Weight Gain: 0 pounds
Stretch Marks: Nope
Maternity Clothes: Nope
Sleep: I am sleeping like a baby :)
Best Moment this Week: Finding out that I was pregnant
Worst Moment this Week: On Thursday, I felt nauseous all day. I barely ate anything. However, I felt much better on Friday. On Saturday, I felt even worse. I just kept saying "It can't be because I am pregnant. I just found out. It has to be something else." I couldn't eat anything all day, felt so nauseous. Eventually, after feeling terrible I threw up and felt much better. Everyone thought it was because of morning sickness, but I didn't think I could feel it that quickly. I still kept saying it was something else.  When I got home, I took my temperature and had a 101.4 fever! I knew it was something else. So it wasn't morning sickness, it was some type of stomach bug!
Miss Anything: Wanting to eat food. Since the stomach bug, I haven't really wanted to eat anything. If you know me, you know how much I LoVe food!
Cravings: Nothing
Queasy or sick: Both
Symptoms:  Nausea in the morning
Have You Started Showing Yet: No
Gender Prediction: Chinese Gender Calendar says it is a BoY!
Happy or Moody Most of the Time: Moody (think it is because I am not feeling 100%)
Looking Forward To: Feeling better and wanting to eat :)


How I told John... March 10, 2015

John and I have been trying to conceive since December 2014. Unfortunately, it didn't happen the first time. I have been tracking my ovulation every month and I knew that my period was suppose to come on March 10. However, I was very anxious and was going to a girls night out that weekend before so I went to Walmart and got a box of three pregnancy test. Now this wasn't my first time getting a pregnancy test and I made the mistake the first time buying a box of two test. Being new to taking a pregnancy test, the first time I took it I thought I did it wrong and only had one more test. So this time, in case I messed up, I bought three!

So before I went out for the girls wine night out I took a pregnancy test, just in case I was pregnant. However, it was negative. I was of course disappointed, but I took it four days before my missed period, so I was still hopeful. Now John was working this weekend, so I wanted to take another one on Sunday, so in case it was positive I was able to prepare a big surprise. So I took the second one on Sunday and like before it was negative. So since I was smart this time and bought a box of three pregnancy test I left the last one to take on the day I was suppose to get my period in case it didn't come. Now, my periods are very regular and I knew if I didn't get it by the afternoon the day it was due that it was a good probability that I was pregnant.

Anxiously, on my break I went to the bathroom and took the test. Looking at it, the test quickly turned positive and I was so excited!!!! Just like you see it in the movies, I started to cry tears of joy! So quickly, I went to my computer and started creating the items that I wanted to make to surprise John.

Now, it was taking a little longer than I expected to make it, so I told John that I had to stay a little later at work to finish up some things. I also wanted to stop by Walmart to get some things to decorate the surprise. I had to tell John today because he was going to work for the next two days and when he goes to work he has to stay overnight. Plus, my dad was coming into town Thursday, so I wanted to have the chance to tell John alone and enjoy the surprise together.

Everything was falling into place. I felt like God really wanted us to be pregnant this month because my dad was coming into town and it was a great surprise to give him since we recently booked the trip.

After work, I went to Walmart and picked up another pregnancy test (just in case). I picked one that read the words "pregnant" and "not pregnant" so it was easy for him to read. Also, I picked up a gift bag and some decorations to make everything look nice. After I purchased the items, I went to the bathroom to take the pregnancy test because John was home and I knew I wasn't going to have all the privacy in the world to take it.

When the test showed "pregnant" I was even more excited. I had the second confirmation. So in the parking lot I got everything ready and stuffed the gift bag in my purse so John wouldn't see it when I got home.

I was lucky when I got home because John was in the bedroom on the phone so it gave me some time to get things ready. I quickly put everything on the table and waited for John to get off the phone. When he left the bedroom I told him I got him a gift and handed him the card.

If you know me, I love taking pictures, so it wasn't a surprise to John that I was taking pictures of him reading the card. After he read the card, I don't think he fully understood what it meant. But, as soon as he opened the present, he quickly knew. He was very excited and happy!








About Me

Hi!!! My name is Jackie Zegarra. I currently live in a small town in North Carolina, but my husband, John, and I grew up our whole lives in South Florida. We have two small fur babies, Gizmo and Zoey who we love so much! We are expecting baby # 1.

Here is our story: 

John and I are high school sweethearts and we have been together for 11 years. We had the same geometry class and he sat in the row behind me. However, even though we never talked we both coincidentally joined the same water polo team. Throughout practice we never spoke or even acknowledged each other. Until one day.... we were on the way home from a game on the school bus and I saw this cute guy with curly hair sitting by himself looking lonely. I approached him and asked him if he was okay. He invited me to sit on his lap and that is how it all started. The next day in class we talked and eventually a friendship lead to a relationship. We have been together since May 2004. Starting a relationship so young was not always easy. However, through all of our ups and downs, we have stayed together, grew together and learned what love really means together. 

Our life changed on November 2011. John joined the United States Coast Guard. Semper Paratus! He has loved every moment of it and it has made our relationship stronger. Military life is not easy to get used to, but we have learned from it and grew stronger together. Our first moved brought us to St. Pete, Florida. We were very excited about this move because it wasn't too far from our family and only heard great reviews about St. Pete. 
We spent two great years in St. Pete and met life long friends on our kickball team there. We were very sad to leave this beautiful and fun place. Unfortunately, it was time to move on and our next billet brought us to a small town, New Bern, NC. It was truly a God sent because just like before we are not too far from family. John's family lives in Raleigh, which is only a quick 2 hour trip. 

After finally getting married October 17, 2014 we are now expecting baby # 1 in November 2015. Anyone who knows John, knows how long John has wanted his own family. If it was up to him, we would have four children by now! We are so excited to begin this new journey and to share every moment with you!